Walk Like a Child

2 01 2012

So Uncle Rich,” my adult nephew asked me over the holidays, “Have you learned how to walk?,

I’m still working on it,” I replied, “but I’m closer than before,

though I didn’t tell him at the time that the further I got into the book I was reading, the more questions I had  about walking.   That book is Born to Run by Christopher McDougall*, the book that was the basis of the New York Times Magazine article “The Once and Future Way to Run” that I referred to in my earlier blog post and had mentioned to my family a few days earlier.

So with this post, I have now finished reading the book that has provided some amazing insights about running (walking). tango and life.    But first, I’d like to try to clean up my last post a bit with some specifics about what it has meant for me and tango social dancing.

(1) Here’s what’s been most helpful for me:

  • Be quick, light and springy below the waist, while keeping the body quiet above the waist (leads and follows)
  • Land lightly on your forefeet (leads and follows)
  • Balance, elasticity, stability in mid-stance and cadence is important for every step. (leads and follows)
  • Keep your feet underneath you.  Step with you knee, not your feet.

(2)  It’s been difficult for me to change my posture, but some of the changes I’ve made have reaped dividends.   I spent way too many years flexing at bit at my waist (tilting forward from the waist) — because I thought that was the right thing to do.  And the harder I tried to fix my posture, the more aches and pains I got in my lower back and below.   Now, I’m starting to learning how wrong I was and what I need to do differently to fix posture, although I still have a long ways to go.  Most of the aches and pains in my lower back have disappeared (and I was able to ski again this winter) without any adverse effects.

Bad Posture

Illustration2: Showing bad posture bending or tilting forward from the waist; note the bend in the middle of the "red line ".

Good Posture      

Illustration1: Showing good posture, with the shoulder, hip and foot aligned, see the straight "yellow line".


Finally, it’s been helpful for me to get my head around the concept of “keeping my feet underneath me” and “tilting forward from the ankles” with the heel down and the feet flat on the floor. While these concepts can work independently, they can also work together as shown by Illustration 3.

Leaning Forward

Illustration 3: Tilting or leaning forward from the ankles with feet flat on the floor. The yellow lines show an example of good posture. The red line shows a wrong posture when the legs are perpendicular to the floor.


It’s been an interesting for me to discover how some of these diverse pieces seem to fit together. A number of people from different walks of life had to tell me essentially the same thing in their own way before I had my “Eureka moment.” But as all tango dancers eventually discover, a Eureka moment is just the beginning of a quest and not the end.  I’ll share more from the book later on, as they give me new insight into tango dancing.  As the book subtitle says, “A hidden tribe, superathletes, and the greatest race the world has never scene.”  That’s not unlike the path taken by most aspiring milongueros in their own personal quest.   The book is worth the read for anyone.  It is a fascinating read for those who would like to understand their dance.

*Thanks to Mike Adamle for encouraging me read the book!





Unraveling the Mystery of the Tango Walk

25 11 2011

My new tango instructor showed me how I need to adjust my body to continue to grow in my dance. I was a bit skeptical at first, since that was the first time I had heard this suggestion,  but I figured that I may as well give it a shot. It seemed to help.

Fast forward another year or so when I started getting a stabbing pain that needed relief.  When my physical therapist developed my personalized program to relieve my pain, she included  the same thing I had been shown years earlier by my tango instructor.  Now I had two totally independent sources saying the same things and I was starting to really believe.  I began using the technique not just in my own dance, but I used it in teaching some of my beginning tango classes.

Fast forward another year or so and I stumbled across this article on running   in a recent NY Times Magazine which — again — said the same thing.  More than just a provocative article on running, I realized that it really helped me unravel some more of the mystery of the tango walk that had eluded me over the years —  though not for the lack of trying!  Yes, it may be a stretch to equate centuries old running techniques with tango — but bear with me and read on.  I don’t think that you’ll be disappointed.

Think “tango”  – the tango walk for the lead or the tango walk for the follow — as you read some of these passages lifted from the article:

” .. adopting the .. whisper-soft stride”
“”.. learn to run (walk) gently”
“.. from the waist down .. quick, light and springy, like a kid swooping across a playground.”

“They wanted to land lightly on their forefeet .. but there was a disconnect between their intentions and their movements. ..  ’Once we develop motor patterns they are difficult to unlearn, especially if you’re not sure what it is supposed to feel like.’”

I have often been told that while it takes only ten minutes to learn a  new step in tango, in takes ten years to learn how to walk.  I am now beginning to understand why.

No, I’m not suggesting that running (dancing) barefoot is the answer.   You may have a much more natural walk than I recently had.   But it is about running (dancing) as if you were barefoot or as if you were a child just learning how to walk.   “The key .. is balance, elasticity, stability in mid-stance and cadence.”  That starts sounding like some good tango advice.

While the article argues for an unorthodox style in running, that style has produced world-class runners and has had a resurgence with the recent commercial success of the new Vibram FiveFingers – a rubber foot glove with no heel cushion. or arch support. And Emil Zatopek won gold medals in the all three distance events of the 1952 Olympics while using the same technique.  And while still others are recent converts, all of this flies in the face of the commercial marketing success of Nike and others so successful at selling cushioned support in running shoes.

Over the years, I’ve sometimes struggled knowing what to do when my tango instructors told me to ‘reinvent my walk and walk like I did as a child’ — although I always believed in that advice.   And just last month, I heard how important it is to dance with our feet underneath us.

Yes, it still seems to be fragmented and incomplete, but now I understand more.  And perhaps I’m getting better at learning what to listen for.





Tango Codigos – Part 2

31 08 2010

During my recent trip to Buenos Aires, I ran across a posting of tango codigos at the Saturday night milonga, Cachirulo at Maipu 444 — one of my favorite milongas in Buenos Aires. The Cachirulo codigos were posted in six languages at the entrance to the milonga. Here is the English version of the Cachirulo tango ‘codes of etiquette’ or codigos which I felt were masterfully written — written conversationally, polite but direct (like the Argentines are so good at)  with an emphasis on only those things that really matter — and with more teeth in them than I had in my earlier draft.   While not stated directly in so many words, the message is clear: mess up, and we will ask you to leave.  We respect our guests too much to let you stay, and the ‘follows‘, in particular, enjoy dancing here because of the safe and comfortable environment which is provided.

The codes in the milonga, Cachirulo

Welcome to the best milonga in Buenos Aires. Tanguero friends, please pay attention.

  • Here we dance milonguero style tango, and we learn to respect the codes of the milonga.
  • We dance with a warm, respectful and close embrace.
  • We follow the line of dance, in a counter-clockwise direction.
  • We try not to step backwards into the line of dance, always walking forward, as it should be.
  • We do not lift our feet too much from the floor; this way we avoid hitting other dancers.
  • We invite women to dance through the classic “Cabeceo del caballero”.
  • Furthemore, and “very important”, respect is the first card we play in the game of the milonga.

Much to our regret, not respecting these codes will make it impossible to dance in Cachirulo.

Don’t get hung up on Cachirulo’s use of the words “milonguero” or “close embrace”, although that is consistent with my personal bias.  It is not about only dancing a particular style of dance.  Substitute the word “traditional” for  ”milonguero” or leave out the words “milonguero” and “close (embrace)”  and these tango codigos still apply.

(January 4, 2011 update).     To which I might add:   What’s the hurry?   There is no need to pass; it’s not a race!





The Gavito classes almost brought tears to my eyes

13 08 2010

The second of two Carlos Gavito classes I took yesterday with Maria Plazaola was particularly moving. Maria was Gavito’s last partner. She was in Buenos Aires teaching tango classes on the dance of Gavito at Mansión Dandi Royal for the first time since his death. Since Gavito’s death, she has taught Gavito classes before in Europe, but never before at Mansión Dandi Royal — the hall where Gavito, himself, taught tango. “I’m not Gavito,” Maria said, “I’m not trying to be Gavito. You should not focus on me, only Gavito. No one else will ever be Gavito or dance like him. I’m just trying to share some his steps with you.”

Maria is a warm, soft spoken and humble person. She spoke slowly and deliberately, although her English is excellent. She was clearly pushing through another meaningful moment as part of her own personal growth in tango. While we practiced some steps, she continued to speak of the importance of the feelings — the feelings inside the embrace, the feelings between steps, the feelings in the pauses.

Some dancers in my class had previously taken tango lessons with Gavito in the same hall in 2004 — actually down a half flight of curving stairs to another studio. They kept pointing downstairs to the studio where they studied with Gavito. They of the fact that where there had been mirrors on the walls, where there were now paintings. The memories were still vivid, although Gavito left us a number of years ago.

To Gavito, his life was tango. His life was meaningless without tango. I understand that Gavito knew that he had cancer for about his last ten years. At the time of his death, one of his lungs had already been removed. But he kept dancing and kept smoking. His last tour was to Europe — Italy, I think. He knew his time was short, cancelled the tour and flew home to Buenos Aires. He made his last public performance. He kept dancing, although he knew he was dying. Within a few weeks he was gone.





Current Milongas in Buenos Aires

27 07 2010

I’m going to Buenos Aires for few weeks in August and recently ran across a website link that provides a great comprehesive and updated list of current milongas in Buenos Aires.

http://www.buenosairesmilongas.com/

The list not only includes the necessary event details, but also includes dates when the milonga descriptions most recently updated and notes when other ongoing milongas have been canceled. While I can’t personally vouch for this list today,   I’ll learn a lot more in the next few weeks while I’m in Buenos Aires, and will update my readers, accordingly.   I did notice that the list includes milongas that have recently been recommended to me through word of mouth.    Let me know your own experience and whether or not anything is missing or listed when it shouldn’t be.

I also recently discovered a blog post of a visiting milonguera’s recent experience at various milongas in Buenos Aires — why she went to that milonga in the first, what she expected to find there and she actually experienced

http://dancingsoul.typepad.com/dancing_soul/2010/02/buenos-aires-revisited.html.

It would have helped me understand the differences in some of the milongas in Buenos Aires before my first visit a few years ago.  It should be helpful getting of sense of the what a visitor experiences at some of the milongas, and would be particularly helpful to the uninitiated.





The Essence of Tango – Feelings or Steps?

19 03 2010

What is the essence of tango? What generates the passion that makes tango both seductive and addictive at the same time? Does the same motivation that gets us started in tango dancing continue to generate the emotion and excitement to sustain it?

One of the ongoing debates within American tango communities is a focus on feelings vs. a focus on steps. The discussion goes back to the introduction of tango in America. At the time, Americans were captivated by what they saw on stage, and wanted to learn that stage dance, to dance socially. Many tanqueras and tanqueros have come to understand tango social dancing as what was performed on stage, when in fact these same performers danced a very different style socially – and still do today.

Yet the trend persists. Social dancing for some as become synonymous with learning steps, steps to perform for others. Yet most traditional tango social dancing in the salons and barrios of Buenos Aires is a much more understated style that focuses on feelings generated by posture, embrace and musicality. That dance is commonly called ‘milonguero’ style, though it’s sometimes confused with ‘salon’ or other ‘close embrace’ variations. ’Millonguero’-style social dancers feel what stage dancers see. They’re inspired in their dance by their connection with their partner and how it feels to them, instead of how their performance looks to others.

Is there a natural growth or progression? Only time will tell for each person. As in in many types of artistic expression, the best artists may never feel like they have finally arrived. Instead their art continues to evolve through their own understanding, inspiration and interpretation.

Good tango dancers can only aspire to the pinnacle of tango; they never reach it. Some of the best dancers in the world feel like they’ve only just begun.” As recently stated by older and wise ‘milonguero’ who has been dancing tango in Buenos Aires most of his life, “After over 60 years of tango dancing, I think I’ve finally learned how to walk.” How humbling for those of us who have only danced a few years, while sometimes feeling that we have already learned how to walk.

As perhaps best stated by Daniel Trenner — one of the early pioneers in bringing ‘milongueoro’ style social dancing to North America:

“It took years to get past being fascinated with the steps, which were my first draw to the dance. The dancers who were doing less footwork were uninteresting to me and I just didn’t see them. Then, years of advice from the milongueros to feel the dance, not just learn steps, began to take effect. I started to notice the dancers for how they stood, embraced and felt the music. It isn’t like I didn’t know about these things before, I just didn’t see them… even though they were right in front of me.”





Tango is Fragile

15 10 2009

I continue to experience how fragile it is to dance Tango, particularly at this early stage of my tango journey (i.e. years 1-5).  For the last number of months, I feel like I’m cycling on and off with my dance or perhaps I should say forwards and backwards. When I have my ‘A’ game, every tanda with each ‘follow’ is wonderful – no matter how good the music actually is or how experienced my partner. I may be ‘on’ for as little as one tanda, one night, or if I’m lucky, for a week or two.

Then suddenly, it’s as if it’s over and the clock is rolled back to a time weeks, or even months earlier and lasts perhaps another a week or ten days. Some partners I recently had fabulous dances with as little as a few days earlier, may suddenly seem to me to be out of my league and I may not have the necessary confidence to even ask them to dance, yet alone re-create that oh so wonderful experience. And even with those I do dance with, the dance may seem to be mechanical or in our heads and we don’t come close to creating the magic we felt so recently.

And as I continue to work hard to improve my dance and continue to go through these cycles, I’ve concluded that growth and development of my dance requires humility and vulnerability. When you feel good about how well you’re dancing and think you know everything, you loose it all. Yet, when you may feel a bit uncomfortable with your dance, less confident and perhaps a bit fragile AND you approach each milonga and each partner with a good dose of humility and that humility carries you along and can result in perhaps a very good dance.  It provides an avenue for growth and may give you and your partner your best dance of the week.





Tango and Life

19 05 2009

I often find it difficult to explain to friends what Tango really means to me, although I did find the following useful:

“We enter this world alone.  We leave it pretty much the same way.   And in between, a dance we call life.
Problem is (that) it takes two to Tango.   So we look for signs; something to help us to find our perfect partners.  A smile, a wave.  But we have to to be careful; because while some signs can be misinterpreted, others can be missed completely …
Some dances you sit out.  Others you change partners.   The important thing is … (that) you never stop dancing.”

 (Chuck Fishman, Early Edition)





Why the name “Tango chose me”? Sally Potter and the movie, ‘The Tango Lesson’

7 05 2009

Each time I view Sally Potter’s movie, The Tango Lesson,  I gain new insights and understanding of the Tango dance, the partnership and the passions of Tango and of life expressed both on and off the floor, as well as the new discovery on how the partnership continuously works to create something special, together.

Near the end of the movie, Pablo Veron was asked by Sally Potter why he chose to dance Tango. Pablo replied, “Tango Chose Me” — hence the name of my  blog.   The journey is profound.  While each step along the way may seem uneventful, the composite has given me a new life that continues to provide me profound insights  — about myself, my relationships with others and life in general — that build on each other one day at a time.








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